there are pretty, fanciful things in Life. yes. there are disastrous, devastating things in Life. yes. there are both. always, both. always both-and. evermore, both-and. darling one, the capacity of U knows how to tune for the brilliance of both-and. a specific frequency. yes. a nuanced sense of Be-ing in this world. yes. and too, u r. darling one, u r both-and. always, and evermore, u r.